Garden Dilemmas, Delights & Discoveries, Ask Mary Stone, New Jersey Garden blog
Young Thomas taking careful steps through a shallow pond while exploring a garden.

Treasures from a Countryside Garden Tour

A summer day spent touring seven gardens in Warwick, New York, became a joyful reminder that the greatest treasures aren't always the plants—they're the people, stories, generosity, and connections that grow alongside them.
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Jolee standing beside a folded American flag in a garden bordered by large stone boulders

The Flag & the Knot – Growing Forward Anyway

A simple Fourth of July project turned into an unexpected lesson about perfection, progress, and moving forward anyway. What began as raising a flag became a story of mystery knots, laughter, poison ivy, and the wisdom Mother Nature offers in the Garden of Life.
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Antique silver spoon engraved with the name Mary resting on a houseplant.

What We Carry Forward in the Garden of Life

From a Victorian berry spoon and a treasured letter to a friend's citizenship oath, reflections on belonging, gratitude, and the stories we carry forward in the Garden of Life.
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Mature Dove Tree (Davidia involucrata) in full leaf during summer after a spring freeze prevented flowering.

The Gift of Noticing: A Dove Tree That Didn’t Bloom

At Marty Carson's celebration of life, a Dove Tree that didn't bloom, a gardener's family, and an unexpected silver spoon offered a touching reminder that gardens teach us to notice beauty, kindness, and one another.
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Patrick McDuffee leading a tour through the formal herb garden at Well-Sweep Herb Farm.

Love, Lovage & Treasures at Well-Sweep Farm

A visit to Well-Sweep Herb Farm leads to unexpected discoveries, from towering lovage and herbal treasures to a poignant reminder of friendship, healing, and the lessons nature offers when we slow down long enough to listen.
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Mimi holding pots of red and yellow zinnias purchased for her foundation garden in Hope, New Jersey.

Lessons from Spiderwort and Crooked Trees

What began as a garden tune-up for a dear client became a wrestling match with Spiderwort—and a lesson about purpose, resilience, and life's winding paths. Our conversation and a song about a crooked tree revealed that what seems out of place today may have a purpose we cannot yet see
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Fresh spring leaves and a yellow flower drifting together in moving water symbolize connection, belonging, and life's journey.

Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life

While revising her book proposal inspired by The Lesson of the Leaf, Mary Stone discovers an unexpected truth woven through years of writing, gardening, and observing nature. The deepest lesson may not be about healing loneliness and loss—but about remembering that we belong.
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