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The Gift of Carol Decker’s Wildlife Art

Carol Decker standing next to a railing of her home.

Hello fellow lovers of all things green,

I had the pleasure of meeting Carol Decker at her Garden Party and Art Show, co-hosted by Fran’s (Delgado) Farmhouse Kitchen, to benefit Birth Haven in Newton, NJ, which provides shelter and support for homeless pregnant women and girls. What a privilege to volunteer songs with my singing partner and dear friend, Ken Roberts, to help support one of Carol’s many causes. Feeling our common thread of spirits rooted in nature, I asked Carol for an interview.

Carol Decker holding her first painting done at twelve years old.

Carol Decker’s first painting was at the age of 12.

A humble and generous spirit.

A week after the garden party, Carol Decker graciously invited me to her home. I spent the afternoon learning about the journey that led her to become a renowned nature and wildlife artist. Carol’s humble and generous spirit shines through in her art, and in her beautiful Sussex County home, reminiscent of a cabin in the Adirondacks, serving as both her studio and gallery.

Then there’s her business savvy. Carol’s first job out of high school was as a legal secretary for an attorney, which gave her the insight and instinct to make a living doing what she loves. When we look back at our lives, we see that the things that happened had a purpose and a reason, even though at the time we had no clue why.

A journal with sketches of baby black being weighed and tagged for monitoring.

I felt as if I were in the woods with Carol as she reminisced about the adventures in the natural world.

“Because it’s a gift. I don’t take full 100% credit for it, so I don’t look at myself as being famous, but I look at myself as receiving this beautiful gift, and my only responsibility my whole life was to make it better and better.”

And to give to others, she didn’t add.

Carol Decker’s artistic journey began as a teen.

The remarkable part of the story is that she is primarily self-taught. Her parents noticed her love of drawing and found local artists who gave informal lessons. She still has her very first painting, a watercolor of a bird she created when she was 12 years old. Five years later, she’d go after school to a woman who painted flowers for the Brooklyn Botanical Gardens, who taught by sharing the masters.

“What I was learning was how to mix colors and how to draw. Copying the old masters is the best way in the world to learn to paint,” Carol said.

an oil painting copy of Blue Boy done by Carol Decker.

“Copying the masters is the best way to learn to paint.”

an oil painting copy of Pinky done by Carol Decker. Her masterful duplication of Pinkie by Sir Thomas Lawrence in 1794, and Blue Boy, by Thomas Gainsborough in 1770 (officially titled “A portrait of a young gentleman”), graces the walls of her guest room, painted when she was 17 years old.

For seventeen years, Carol held an art show at Lafayette Village with her husband, Roy, framing everything. They filled the building, providing free snacks with no admission fee. Thirty or forty fans would wait outside on opening day. And she sold paintings, many paintings—always giving a portion to help the community.

 New Jersey Outdoor covers propelled Carol’s popularity. 

The covers Carol painted for New Jersey Outdoors magazine for 15 years propelled her popularity. She sold all the paintings. Years later, she “put out to the universe” that she wished she had saved one of them. Then, one—a bass painting—magically returned to her.

“One day, I received a call from a woman who said. I’d like to visit you and give a painting back that you had sold to my late husband.”

The magnificent part of the story is that her son inspired the painting. A subtle vignette of him fishing is hidden in the clouds above the bass.

an oil painting of a bass with an sublt vignette of a boy fishing in the clouds done by Carol Decker.

“If I could have had one of those 80 covers back, I would have picked that one.”

“If I could have had one of those 80 covers back, I would have picked that one.”

Carol’s Wildlife and Nature Journals turned into Paintings.

We meandered from the guest room and circled the upper floor, overlooking the first floor. Her paintings adorned the walls, and others are stacked below them. I marveled over the paper birch trunks that Roy built into the rails. And the enormous chandelier made of moose antlers, called paddles due to their broad, flat shape. He created many artful treasures and furniture by hand.

What a delight to look through her piles of journals. Pages and pages of observations in nature are described and illustrated in pencil, many of which turned into paintings over the years. Carol shows me a favorite sketch of the adorable chickadee and asks me to read what she wrote:

‘Little aerial Acrobat, always hanging from something upside down. March 2 (her wedding anniversary), I went out to fill the bird feeder. Impatient chickadee scolding me to hurry up. Decided instead to coax him to my hand for sunflower seeds. It only took five minutes. He came to my hand twice. I could hardly feel this tiny bit of fluff land. Did he just enter my world, or I his?’

a page in a book of a sketch of a chickadee and handwritten notes.

Did he just enter my world, or I his?’

Such beautiful words and pictures.

“That says it all – these are the results of years of observing,” Carol said.

While watching Carol turn each page, sharing the memories of those moments, it felt as if I were in the woods with her as she reminisced about the adventures in the natural world. Her art and giving spirit demonstrate the circle of life and the importance of the difference we can make in the world by sharing the gifts we are given.

Towards the end of our visit, Carol shared what the symbol means after her signature on her art—G-O-D, one letter upon the next, in gratitude for the gifts she has been given. The conversation led to the power of our thoughts and words—May they all come from the spirit of love.

Thank you, Carol, for sharing your gifts; you are a light!

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For more information about Carol, visit her website: CarolDeckerWildLifeArtStudio.net

Link to Fran’s Farmhouse Kitchen. 

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Mary Stone, owner of Stone Associates Landscape Design & Consulting. As a Landscape Designer, I am grateful for the joy of helping others beautify their surroundings which often leads to sharing encouragement and life experiences. These relationships inspired my weekly column published in THE PRESS, 'Garden Dilemmas? Ask Mary', began in 2012. I dream of growing the evolving community of readers into an interactive forum to share encouragement and support in Garden and Personal Recoveries - seeking nature’s inspirations, stimulating growth, weeding undesirables, embracing the unexpected. Thank you for visiting! Mary
  1. Marlene Andersen Reply

    Hi Mary, I so enjoyed your article about Carol Decker. Back in the 90s I also created wildlife art.( Andersens Original Woodburnings)
    I met Carol at many a wildlife art show in New Jersey namely the Navesink River Decoy Show and also At Basking Ridge wildlife center in the Great Swamp. Carol has always captured birds and other wildlife in her very special way! I still have a large pen and ink of deer at “Full Alert.” My other favorite is a beautiful Tom Turkey. My husband and I miss our New Jersey hikes throughout Sussex and Morrow counties. Ohio just isn’t the same! Thanks for the memories !

    • Mary Stone Reply

      Thank you, Marlene, for your kind words and for taking the time to share. Your wildlife art captured in wood burning sounds lovely. The magical thing about nature is that the memories of the beauty we experience stay in our hearts. Thank you again, Mary

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