Garden Dilemmas, Delights & Discoveries, Ask Mary Stone, New Jersey Garden blog

Remember Learn Grow and Love

Mary Stone, Garden Dilemmas, Ask Mary Stone,Gardening tips, Garden Blogs, Stone Associates Landscape Design, Garden Blog,911 Memorial at Warren County College, Washington NJ 911 Memorial at Warren County College, Washington NJ

Hello, fellow lover of all things green,

911 Memorial at Warren County College with models of the World Trae Center and a rusted piece from the site.

911 Memorial at Warren County College, Washington, NJ

As you may know there’s a podcast version of our weekly chats from the screen porch. Last week, I recorded the episode on 9-11 (link below). The sky was bright blue and the air crisp— much like that day our world changed. The anniversary of the tragedy reminds me of when I registered for a fiction workshop at Warren County Community College. The desk person at the library, also a student, handed me the paperwork for a student ID date-stamped 9-11, bringing a reflection of that day and the wisdom to remember, learn, grow, and love.

“Do you recall that day?” I asked the young man.

“No, other than people crying.” He revealed he was four at the time.

We chatted about how it brought a wave of patriotism and acceptance of each other, no matter our cultural differences.

“It’s sad that much of the comradery is lost today.” He nodded in agreement, such a kind young man of mixed descent.

I look forward to the day we look upon each other as One. One with nature. One with the world. Maybe it sounds cliché. Perhaps it’s wishful thinking. I think of it as Hope.

What does this have to do with gardening or nature? The garden of life?
The orange flowers of Impatiens capensis, Jewel Weed

Orange Jewel Weed (Impatiens capensis)

Two beautiful plants draw attention along the road in September. There’s Orange Jewelweed, also known as Spotted Jewelweed. Impatiens capensis is an annual plant native to North America that thrives along streams, creeks, and in trenches roadside. They grow three to five feet tall and have almost see-through succulent-like stems. The flower’s shape reminds me of foxgloves, though they dance on the tips rather than ride all along the stems. Hummingbirds, butterflies, and other insects adore the nectar.

Then there’s Knotweed (Fallopia japonica) an invasive plant from Asia. Yet, the showy, lacey white flowers covering the colonizing plants are magnets for pollinators when not much else is blooming. Beekeepers make the best use of the invader by cutting the hollow stems and bundling them as a habitat for solitary tunnel-nesting native bees.

Let us not forget our roots. 
Knotweed with feathery white flowers along the stems.

Knotweed (Fallopia japonica)

Perhaps it’s a far-reaching wish that plants that found their way here from other countries become integrated into our environment as the balance of nature adapts. Maybe their “invasive” status can become no longer so, as hopefully, wildlife learns to use the imported plant for sustenance so that native plants are no longer squelched. Maybe a dream, but let’s not forget our roots; for most of us, we are imports, too.

A few years ago, I had the joy of meeting Cheryl Woodruff-Brooks at an event hosted by Hippocampus Magazine. Cheryl authored Chicken Bone Beach, A Pictorial History of Atlantic City’s Missouri Avenue Beach. She came upon the idea when she marveled over a photo exhibit from the Chicken Bone Beach Collection by a self-taught photographer.

Joy, Community, and Love 

In her book, Cheryl explained, ‘While so many images of the publicly accepted African American history have shown struggle, pain, humiliation, and dismay, John W. Mosley’s photographs depicted joy, laughter, family, fun, community, and love.’

A photo of the cover of Chicken Bone Beach by Cheryl Woodruff-Brooks

I had the joy of meeting Cheryl Woodruff-Brooks, who wrote Chicken Bone Beach.

During our chat, she asked what I do for a living.

“Get out. You make a living designing garden?” Cheryl whips out her phone and scrolls for photos. “I love to garden.”

She shared the creative layout of her plot in a community garden, explaining how she plants something new each year. One year, she had sunflowers in the middle of the garden, which the birds loved.

“I gave you the seeds; the least you can do is not poop on my vegetables,” she joked. “So, this year, I didn’t put the sunflowers in the middle and tried beets.”

Gardening like life is evolutionary. May we always remember the past, learn and grow from it, and do so with love.

Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone@gmail.com and your favorite Podcast App.

Enjoy more of the story in the Garden Dilemmas Podcast (12 soothing minutes):

Link to more about Jewelweed and Knotweed in September Roadside Beauties 

 

a group of Comfort Zone Camp volunteers in front of an audience of campers during a memorial serrvice.

Comfort Zone Campers Become Volunteers

Mary Stone in front of a lake wearing a purple Comfort Zone Camp T shirt.

Comfort Zone Camp– September 13-15, 2024

Celebrating 25 Years

Comfort Zone Camp (CZC), a bereavement camp for kids and young adults, grew after 9-11. The founder, Lynne Hughes, of the Virginia-based camp, knew she had to offer camps in the NY Tri-State area. Now in its 25th year, Comfort Zone Camp provides weekend camps free for families in 12 states nationwide, serving over 24,000 campers.

One-third of the campers become volunteers, pictured here at the recent Loss by Overdose Camp held in Fishkill, New York, in partnership with A Little Hope Foundation. Others then become staff members, such as Krista Collopy, Senior Regional Director (in purple)— helping to change lives.

Volunteering doesn’t have to be in the form of an organization. We all can make a difference by volunteering to care for our land and each other. To Remember, Learn, Grow, and Love.

 

Mary Stone, owner of Stone Associates Landscape Design & Consulting. As a Landscape Designer, I am grateful for the joy of helping others beautify their surroundings which often leads to sharing encouragement and life experiences. These relationships inspired my weekly column published in THE PRESS, 'Garden Dilemmas? Ask Mary', began in 2012. I dream of growing the evolving community of readers into an interactive forum to share encouragement and support in Garden and Personal Recoveries - seeking nature’s inspirations, stimulating growth, weeding undesirables, embracing the unexpected. Thank you for visiting! Mary

Leave a Reply

*

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.